My favorite definition is “the study of getting results.” As in, what steps do you need to take to get a certain result (for example: making $1,000,000)? This includes letting go of fears, insecurities, and limiting beliefs and adopting a mindset that supports that result. This also includes taking action.
Your Programming (Thoughts, Feelings, Actions/Behavior) –> Your Results in Life.
This is a really simplified explanation, but the basic concept here is that in order to change your life, you must first change your programming. So although the practice of NLP is comprised of various techniques, NLP is really an attitude more than anything else: the attitude that you have the power to create whatever you want in life.
One of my clients recently described my coaching program as “scraping all the junk off of a statue so you can see the artwork underneath.” I think that sums it up perfectly. Because you don’t have to be a different kind of man to attract women, friends, and better business opportunities; you just need to fully step into being the man who you are.
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Your Inside Woman,