You’re probably wondering…How the heck is a woman going to help me claim my masculine power? Shouldn’t I go deep into the woods with a bunch of other dudes, hunt, fish, grunt, make fires, and meditate in a cave to reclaim my masculinity?
What if I told you that a woman isn’t just the best guide to reclaiming your masculine power; she’s the only guide that can actually lead you there once you’ve lost your way?
Bold claim, I know…I’ll explain in a moment…
But first, why claim your authentic masculine power?
So you can stop spending your days chained to a desk and your nights planted on the couch and instead be the man! You know, the man who has a career you love, money flowing in, and you’re dating the kind of women you want to date.
Most men have it backwards: they think that having money, women, and social status make a man a *real man.* But it’s the other way around. Claiming your authentic masculine power is what leads to creating wealth, attracting the women you want, and having…pretty much whatever else you want in life.
So what is authentic masculine power anyway?
It’s NOT about being tall, big, muscular, or handsome
It’s NOT about being the alpha dog who can fight everyone else to the death
It’s NOT about being a macho jerk
Your Authentic Masculine Power is your ability to make things happen, to create opportunities for yourself (instead of just waiting for them to happen to you), and to get what you freakin’ want in life!
Authentic Masculinity is about taking action, taking charge, leading, and giving your gifts so that the world is a better place (also known as making a difference).
Here are a few indicators that you aren’t fully claiming your authentic masculine power (yet):
- You have lots of female friends but no girlfriend
- You’ve studied a lot of pick-up material and yet still struggle with dating
- You’ve mastered the art of picking up women but you still have no idea how to have an actual relationship with one
- You don’t know what you want to do with your life or what your purpose is
- You know what your life’s purpose is but you have no idea how to achieve it
So let’s get back to why a woman is the only true guide to get you where you want to go. Have you ever heard of feminine intuition? Do you know what it actually is? It’s an internal compass that all of us women have that knows when a man is on or off course in his life and in his masculine power. (Actually, it’s more than just that, but that’s a whole other topic…)
Not all women use their intuition, but all women know when you are truly in your authentic masculine power, and when you’re not. Some women know how to lovingly guide you back on course; some women will just throw a hissy fit, and others still just won’t give you the time of day or will reject you flat out. But however a woman demonstrates this to you, it all comes down to you not being fully on course, on purpose, and in your power.
That’s why they say that behind every good man is a good woman (I don’t know who ‘they’ are but they are smart J ).
By the way, I’m not suggesting you shouldn’t also have male mentors, teachers and coaches. A good male mentor will teach you things that I won’t, just as I’ll show you things that he won’t.
I know because I used to work with one of the best male coaches out there: I used to be the editor for Sean Stephenson’s Inner Game Magazine, where I wrote a monthly newsletter titled “Getting Inside a Woman.” The newsletter offered the woman’s perspective on what women are really attracted to. When Inner Game Magazine closed, I launched my own company: Getting Inside a Woman.
I’ve been practicing as a certified NLP Practitioner since 2008, and I recently became certified as an NLP trainer. I’m passionate about learning as much as I can about dating, attraction, and masculine/feminine dynamics, because I really believe that everything in life comes down to understanding how yang and yin energies (masculine and feminine) interact.
I specialize in coaching men to claim their authentic masculine power and be attractive to women using their own, natural personality. Yes, I have a very strong feminine intuition-compass. Since I’m also a certified NLP trainer, I have the skills to actually guide you back on course once I’ve used my intuition to know where it’s off.